Wives, please don’t break up with your boyfriend. In the midst of motherhood, career, church activities and a host of other things that may not have been a part of your dating relationship with your husband, in can be easy to forget that you still have a boyfriend, unless of course you broke up with him on your wedding day. Marriage is a little sweeter and a lot more fun when you remember this too often neglected fact – you are still “going together” with the guy who you knew was the ONE!
Yes, you now pay bills together and make exciting decisions such as whether or not to get a new lawn mower, but the fact remains that if you were sitting alone in a restaurant, he is still the only guy in the world that could flash a little smile, ask you out and hear the words, “Yes, I would love to!”. This also means that you are still HIS girlfriend. Being his wife doesn’t mean you’ve forgotten how to look at your sweetheart with those eyes that make him feel like the luckiest man on the planet. Dirty dishes and mortgages don’t stop you from feeling wonderful knowing that yes, you can still make him feel that way.
There is no reason to break up with the love of your life just because you marry him, ladies. Close your eyes and remember how much you love YOUR boyfriend and all the reasons why. Then flirt with him with all your feminine charms. There is nothing wrong with that, after all, you are married to the guy!